When we find ourselves searching for love in all the wrong places, we may unknowingly be under the influence of the Shadow Lover. This archetype can lead us to constantly seek external validation and fulfillment, leaving us feeling eternally restless and unsatisfied. It is important to recognize that true love starts from within, and by embracing the Lover archetype in its authentic form, we can cultivate a deep sense of self-love and connection that transcends the need for external validation. This video explores 5 traits to avoid, with quotes from wise men.

The shadow lover is characterized by an addiction to intense experiences and relationships, constantly seeking new thrills and passions without finding fulfillment. This archetype can also manifest as an impotent lover, someone who struggles to connect emotionally and experiences difficulties in forming deep and meaningful connections with others.